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8. Use your time wisely: There is a lot of preparation that goes into achieving your goal. As you make your list you have to add some time in for all of the unknowns. The unknowns are the little things that come up, added appointments, sickness, etc. Pace yourself as Rome wasn’t built in a day. Some examples are: losing weight; you have to have an exercise regimen along with a healthy eating plan in place. If you are trying to step up your sales, you have to make sure you have product knowledge and practice your presentation. This means practice, practice, and more practice. These are just two examples, there are plenty other scenarios.
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There is a concept that has been passing down verbally from generation to generation in India about the origin of Ayurveda. Accordingly, the ancient "Rishis" or wise men of India gathered at the foot of the Himalayas. Their objective was to innovate together the secret of leading a healthy, long life. The final product of their effort came to be known as Ayurveda or the "science of life".
According to the Ayurvedavatarana (the "descent of Ayurveda"), the origin of Ayurveda is stated to be a divine revelation of the ancient Indian creator God Lord Brahma as he awoke to recreate the universe. This knowledge was passed directly to Daksha Prajapati in the form of shloka sung by Lord Brahma, and this was in turn passed down through a successive chain of deities to Lord Indra,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the protector of dharma. According to this account, the first human exponent of Ayurveda was Bharadvaja, who learned it directly from Indra. Bharadvaja in turn taught Ayurveda to a group of assembled sages, who then passed down different aspects of this knowledge to their students. According to tradition, Ayurveda was first described in text form by Agnivesha,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], in his book the Agnivesh tantra. The book was later redacted by Charaka, and became known as the Charaka Samhitā. Another early text of Ayurveda is the Sushruta Samhitā,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], which was compiled by Sushrut,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the primary pupil of Dhanvantri, sometime around 1000 BCE. Sushrut is known as the Father of Surgery, and in the Sushrut Samhita, the teachings and surgical techniques of Dhanvantri are compiled and complemented with additional findings and observations of Sushrut regarding topics ranging from obstetrics and orthopedics to ophthalmology. Sushrut Samhita together with Charaka Samhitā,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], served as the textual material within the ancient Universities of Takshashila and Nalanda. These texts are believed to have been written around the beginning of the Common Era, and are based on a holistic approach rooted in the philosophy of the Vedas and Vedic culture. Holism is central to ayurvedic philosophy and elements of holism is found in several aspects of ayurveda.
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Ayurvedic medicine is an ancient system of health care that is native to the Indian subcontinent. It is presently in daily use by millions of people in India, Nepal, and Sri Lanka. The word "Ayurveda" is a tatpurusha compound of the word āyus meaning "life",[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], "life principle", or "long life" and the word veda, which refers to a system of "knowledge". Thus "Ayurveda" roughly translates as the "knowledge of life",[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], "knowledge of a long life" or even "science of life". According to Charaka Samhita, "life" itself is defined as the "combination of the body, sense organs, mind and soul, the factor responsible for preventing decay and death, which sustains the body over time, and guides the processes of rebirth" According to this perspective, Ayurveda is concerned with measures to protect "ayus",[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], which includes healthy living along with therapeutic measures that relate to physical, mental, social and spiritual harmony. Ayurveda is also one among the few traditional systems of medicine to contain a sophisticated system of surgery (which is referred to as "salya-chikitsa").
Documented references to the precise timing of the origins of Ayurveda are not available. The age of Ayurveda has been established on the basis of correlating the evidence with other disciplines as well as circumstantial evidence. Ayurveda is said to have been first compiled as a text by Agnivesha, in his book Agnivesh tantra, which was written during Vedic times.[citation needed] The book was later revised by Charaka,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and renamed to Charaka Samhitā (encyclopedia of the physician Charaka).[8] Other early texts of Ayurveda include the Charaka Samhitā and the Sushruta Samhitā. The system was orally transferred via the Gurukul system until a script came into existence.
The earliest scripts would have been written on perishable materials such as Taalpatra and Bhojapatra, which could not be readily preserved. The script was later written on stone and copper sheets. Verses dealing with Ayurveda are included in the Atharvaveda,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], which implies that some form of Ayurveda is as old as the Vedas. Ayurvedic practices have also evolved over time, and some practices may be considered innovations upon earlier Vedic practices,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], such as the advances made during the Buddhist period in India.
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Hinduism attributes the genesis of Ayurveda to several theories in which the knowledge is believed to have been passed on from being to being, initially, through its realization by the divine sages, and gradually into the human sphere by a complex system of mnemonics. Details of Ayurvedic traditions vary between writers, as is expected when oral traditions are transcribed from multiple sources. The earliest authors of Ayurvedic manuscripts recorded divergent forms of the tradition.
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“It’s the highest-risk period, and the higher up you are, the riskier it is,” says Jeff Gunderson, CEO of Executive Connections, an executive search and placement firm.
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But don’t stop there. Getting hired is just the first step.
This transitional period might even be riskier today than seven or eight years ago. Shrunken budgets have meant less training,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], reduced staff support, increased workloads and, perhaps most of all,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], increased expectations for newly hired managers and executives. Should you end up leaving after a short stint,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], doing so can leave a black mark on your resume, raising questions for future employers about your judgment and ability to assess opportunities before making a career commitment.
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You’ll need to spend as much effort and energy—and maybe more—preparing for and making the transition. And this is where it really counts, for the first three to six months in any new position is a period of extreme vulnerability.
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• Assess your own strengths and weaknesses, and identify personal vulnerabilities that could come into play in your new position.
“Failure to create momentum during the first few months virtually guarantees an uphill battle for the rest of your tenure in the job,” Watkins writes. “Building credibility and securing some early wins lay a firm foundation for longer-term success.”
“Leaders, regardless of their level,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], are most vulnerable in their first few months in a new position because they lack detailed knowledge of the challenges they will face and what it will take to succeed in meeting them,” writes Michael Watkins, author of The First 90 Days: Critical Success Strategies for New Leaders at All Levels.
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1. Ask your child questions instead of dictating to them.
Know the reward of what is important to your child or teenager and you have fuel to motivate them into the action of learning life skills. In this clip Supernanny Jo Frost takes the family to a library. The parents are afraid that their misbehaving children will act up and they will feel embarrassed. Jo explains to take 5 minutes to cover the rules before entering the library. Thumbs up, Supernanny!!!
If you have done any parenting style or parenting solution research at all,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you will have found Supernanny Jo Frost all over the internet, including YouTube. When I was raising my children Supernanny Jo Frost was my hero and still is today! What if her child rearing philosophy could be enhanced with new, state of the art,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], positive parenting solutions that would bring even better results with your child or teenager?
Here are 3 Parenting Style Secrets from Thomas’ Creating Champions for Life philosophy that enhance Supernanny’s outdated punishment techniques.
Creating Champions for Life philosophy says to know the reward for your child when pre-framing. This is always focusing on using positive energy to achieve the same outcome of self-discipline you are looking for at the library. You ask your child, “Little Timmy,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], what is important for you to experience today at the library?” Little Timmy will say something like “I’d like to get a book about spiders, Mom!” “Okay, great, Timmy, I would love for you to have a book about spiders! What kind of behavior is correct to use in the library?” Little Timmy will always answer, “Inside behavior,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Mom.” Your child is very, very intelligent. Make it his choice to behave and he will behave in order to receive his reward, the book about spiders from the library.
Children do not have the ability to make decisions because they cannot think abstractly yet. You cannot ask your child, “What do you want for supper?” if you want them to eat nutritious food. They will always default to McDonalds,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Pizza or some other junk food. They will, however, always pick something good to eat if you make the decisions first and then offer your child their three choices.
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3. Parents make decisions and children make choices.
Say you want little Timmy to eat vegetables at supper. Supernanny suggests that they just take little bites while you encourage them to give it a shot. This is still your decision and you are still dictating what is important to you, that you want them to eat vegetables. So, make a parent approved decision about what is important to you and ask them, “When we have dinner tonight, would you like to have peas, corn or carrots?” He will answer,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], “Ummm...how about carrots?” Wow! He just asked for carrots. I promise little Timmy will eat all of the vegetables on his plate tonight!
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Time-outs, removal of privileges, and yelling are all forms of punishment to children. Traditional punishment techniques will work with small children and they will work temporarily, but eventually these techniques will steal the child’s innocence and self-confidence. I asked Thomas to watch the YouTube video and share how Supernanny could create even more success.
When Supernanny Jo Frost was working with the DeMello family in April of 2009 she showed the mom how to stand up and show the kid who is boss,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]! That is awesome and necessary for many parents out there today who believe their sole job as a parent is to keep their children happy. This is a huge mistake!
2. Know the reward that is important to your child.
In every episode we, as parents,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], learn how to do a proper time-out, how to take control as a parent with our voice and actions, and how to hold off anger and frustration with our children. Is there a way to empower our children to greater self-image, self-discipline and confidence versus disempowering them with punishment? The answer is absolutely yes! There is a way to empower your child every day and still have your child display the good, quiet and cooperative behavior you seek.
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Listeners gain an understanding and appreciation for the deceased’s life. Most do not know the deceased as you knew him/her. They are interested. People love stories about others; your words provide the opportunity for learning more about the deceased and listening helps transition distraught feelings into more comfortable ones.
Including humor in the eulogy, benefits listeners. Humor helps maintain interest but even more importantly, it distracts from the heavy,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], somber atmosphere. As sad and serious as a funeral, we psychologically need the lightness humor brings.
Having your audience feel better is a gift that will begin the healing process.
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The deceased is not physically present but spiritually is still in our midst. That is why the gifts we bestow by writing a eulogy and then speaking it are so important.
Celebrating the life of the deceased sends a spiritual message - we value your life, we cherish memories of you, we love you and this party is to celebrate the life you lived.
Wishing spiritual peace for the deceased is the most meaningful gift bestowed. No more struggle! No more illness! No more conflict! Only peace,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]!
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In this era of me, me, me,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], your focus, by giving a eulogy, has to be entirely outside yourself. You act in the interest of the deceased memory and your listeners. It is a voluntary act for the good of someone else. Acting in this way, with selfless motives is both physically and emotionally healthy. In addition, your focus on others makes it difficult to dwell on our own uncertainty, nervousness and personal conflicts. Presenting a eulogy is an opportunity to “get out of your own head”.
Most of us dread public speaking – even presenting eulogies. Although eulogy audiences are more sympathetic and understanding than most, it is still public speaking, with challenges. The period following the death of a loved one is a trying time. You are likely experiencing grief and perhaps shock. With the prospect of standing up to present a eulogy,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], nervousness, lack of information, unresolved issues, family pressures and conflicts, time restrictions complicate the issue. Funeral speeches are difficult to write, much less deliver. Most of us will cower from the challenge.
Words written and publicly spoken in the form of a eulogy, offer respect and honor to the deceased. Giving a eulogy benefits the deceased with deep admiration for your abilities,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], qualities and/or achievements.
Those listening to the funeral speech feel empathy, perhaps sympathy, admiration and respect for your courage – they know what it is like up there. In the passive role of audience,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], listeners benefit from your insight into the life of the deceased.
Public speaking is challenging, difficult – one of the most dreaded act, but it builds character. Overcoming a challenge creates in us the ability to set new goals and conquer more challenges. It has a snowball effect. The more we speak publicly, the better we become,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the better we become, the more our confidence builds, and so on. Try Toastmasters to start the confidence ball rolling.
If one is to survive loss in a healthy way and live with meaning,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], purpose and satisfaction,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], healing is necessary. The act of delivering a eulogy is unselfish, gives you practice with your positive attitude and provides challenges. The act of putting thoughts, memories and feelings on paper and then making them public by speaking them to an audience, begins the healing process from within.
Why give a eulogy? The reasons are clear. You can exchange a few minutes of public speaking discomfort so you, your listeners and the deceased benefit from a positive, kind and honest funeral message. Last Word Eulogies provides help writing a eulogy.
Listeners experience enhanced respect for the deceased. A eulogy’s positive focus affects the audience much the same as it affects the speaker. We call this cognitive restructuring and define it as the process of replacing negative thoughts with positive, constructive ones. Thinking well of the deceased steers family and friends away from the deceased’s problems in life and their own.
The audience, hearing intimate thoughts, memories and feelings about the deceased, are inclined to focus on the life he/she led instead of the finality of death. They are apt to feel more satisfied that the deceased’s life had meaning.
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So why bother? Surprisingly, there are many benefits to presenting a eulogy. In itself, writing and presenting a eulogy are tremendously unselfish acts. Yet numerous benefits fall to the writer/speaker, the listeners and most importantly, and somewhat ironic, to the deceased. What follows is a description of those benefits.
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Most educational systems do not teach you how to create and maintain a long-term, intimate relationship. Often learning occurs by trial and error--and for better or worse, most of us learn by observing the relationships that surrounded us throughout our formative years. You learned by observing how your caregivers related to one another (and to others),[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], as well as how the important adults in your life related to you.
Do you feel that societal and cultural gender role stereotypes are holding you (or your partner) back in your relationship? If so, take some time to journal the ways in which female/male stereotypes are blocking your marriage or relationship from reaching its full potential.
The roots of this reaction often (but not always) stem from the disruptions of intimacy (i.e., neglectful or intrusive parenting) in childhood. When this is the case in your history, the goal for you will be to learn how your body reacts to emotional and physical intimacy. (Be sure to suspend self-criticism while monitoring your reactions.) Once you become aware of your bodily cues, you can use relaxation exercises as a way to recondition your body so that you can accept the deeper levels of connection offered by your partner.
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Becoming mindful of your (and your partner's) beliefs that inhibit emotional and physical intimacy can help you clarify any conflicting attitudes that the two of you might hold about intimacy. Often couples misinterpret their differing expectations as a fear of intimacy,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
For some,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], a more accurate description would be an intolerance of intimacy. You may have a desire for intimacy yet at the same time have a strong, negative physical reaction to deeper levels of connection. It's as if your body's intimacy-thermostat is set to avoidance or withdrawal mode whenever a certain level of intimacy occurs. People who have this reaction may feel confused by it and not fully aware that it is happening.
Overcoming a fear of intimacy caused by relationship role-models:
Use these questions (and others you might think of) to start a dialogue with your partner about how to take the steps necessary to begin increasing the intimacy in your relationship.
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Questioning the assumptions that lie behind gender-role stereotypes is the first step toward loosening the restrictions that accompany these assumptions. Here are a few questions to get you started:
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Can you discuss this with your partner and develop a mutual plan to overcome any gender restrictions that may exist in your marriage or relationship?
What expectations do you hold about emotional and physical intimacy?
Let's take a closer look at three ways a fear of intimacy can manifest in your marriage or relationship.
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Overcoming a fear of intimacy based on gender stereotypes:
Intimacy is a lot like trying to get warm on a cold winter night. You wrap yourself up in your favorite blankets and settle in for sleep, but at some point overnight you may feel too warm and constrained by the blankets. So you disentangle yourself and push the blankets away. But after a few hours you feel chilled again. So you grope for the discarded blankets and wrap them around you again,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], basking in the warmth and security they bring...that is, until you feel too warm once more…
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Society and culture create powerful rules for how men and women relate to each other. Female/male stereotypes have a potent influence on what you feel are acceptable ways to experience and express intimacy. Often these gender roles function behind the scenes in your relationship, at times guiding you and your partner. However, they can frequently serve as a strait-jacket, limiting the level of intimacy allowed in your relationship--the influence of gender role constrictions frequently attribute to one's fear of intimacy.
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Societal and cultural rules may work well for you and your partner, but at times they can adversely restrict the ways in which you and your partner relate to one another. For instance, some cultures send the message that men shouldn't experience feelings that make them feel vulnerable, while women receive the message that the assertion of their needs is unfeminine.
Do you hold any beliefs from your family-of-origin that negatively impact your ability to create a close bond with your partner?
The term "fear of intimacy" is often used to describe someone who has difficulty creating and maintaining a close connection to his/her partner. The phrase highlights a person's struggle to become physically and/or emotionally close and we often describe this struggle as a fear. However, this general term can't fully explain what lies behind one's struggle with intimacy.
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It is not an imaginary dream that we feel our emotions in our gut. Deep inside our intestinal tract we have a myriad of receptors and neuropeptides that fire off when we experience "butterflies" in our stomach. Our "gut instincts" are a product of our emotional reasoning, and serve to work in unison with our intuition.
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My thirty-two year old stepson has hit some hard times and has had to move in with us. He lost his job, lost his condo in foreclosure,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and his girlfriend broke up with him. I’m very worried about him, but my husband thinks he has to just tough it out. My stepson stays in his room most of the time (he says he’s applying to jobs with his laptop) and doesn’t want to talk. He hasn’t been seeing his friends and he’s not interested in doing much of anything. My stepson and I have never been very close, and I don’t know if there is anything that I can do to help him other than giving him a break by letting him stay at our place. Do you have any suggestions?
Ideally,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], your husband can talk to your stepson about seeing a doctor for a diagnostic evaluation and treatment. If your husband doesn’t think it’s necessary,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you can try talking with your stepson directly about your concern - let him know that most people would feel depressed with what he is going through. Letting him know that depression is common among men and is nothing to be ashamed about, may be helpful. Sometimes people have to make an appointment for the depressed person and help them get started in appropriate treatment. His symptoms should begin to lift within several weeks of treatment or the treatment approach should be re-evaluated.
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“Is He Depressed or What? What to Do When the Man You Love is Irritable, Moody, and Withdrawn.” By David Wexler, Ph.D.
According to the National Institute of Mental Health, researchers estimate that at least six million men in the United States suffer from a depressive disorder every year. Depression can become a serious illness if it’s not treated properly. Sometimes, undue stress can bring on depression. Your stepson has had severe setbacks in several major areas of his life, all at the at the same time. While under these circumstances, it is normal for your stepson to be feeling down, it’s important to take the warning signs of depression seriously. More men commit suicide than women, often it is done suddenly without warning.
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Women say, I was glad when he hit me, because I finally realized what was on my plate. I finally got it. This is abuse!
When on the receiving end of verbal and emotional abuse from someone you love,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it is easier to create “permissions” by our own internal denial mechanisms, even though we may know the verbal and emotional abuse are “wrong.”
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Once they do move forward in the relationship, the emotional verbal abuse can be used to sustain the abuse dynamic. How and why? Because, the use of the verbal assault serves to remind the victim that the big blow is right around the corner. This knowing invariably complicates the survivor’s dealing with the abusive relationship. What happens is it keeps her in the corner for longer periods of time.
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First realize that fear is a built in alarm system that comes with the house. You cannot get rid of it. You can put it on a low negativity diet and get it down to a reasonable size. I'm not suggesting a starvation diet. I am suggesting balancing a reasonable serving of speculative, negative news with heavy servings of reality check.
When the alarm system in your house turns into a raging bully, you may need outside forces to get back in control. Find an experienced professional counselor or coach who can support you in confronting the bully of fear and resetting your alarm system.
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Like most bullies, fear does not have any real power. Though loud and intimidating, fear is powerless to do anything but scream in our ear and shake up our system. Fear only has power to the extent that we allow it to run our lives.
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"How is this industry or type of business changing?"
That kind of thinking, often traps small businesses. To get out of the trap, you have to look at your business with different eyes. Ask yourself and your team questions like these:
Now, I know you think you've already done that. But without realizing it, many small businesses are prone to shortsightedness and inertia when it comes to running their businesses. Business owners tend to think about, and do, what's familiar and what has always worked, and dismiss ideas others suggest as unworkable without trying them or seriously considering them. After all,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it's easier and safer to do what you think works than try something different.
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When we fail to take responsibility to let others know our limits (or boundaries),[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], we tend to blame,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], persecute,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and offend others.
It means refusing to accept others who cannot or will not respect and honor who we are. It means accepting responsibility for our beliefs,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], feelings, and actions.
We need to let others know where our boundaries are and that we are serious about them. Then, we need to change our behavior accordingly, backing ourselves up with positive action.
When we set boundaries with people, we need to know we are not responsible for another person’s choices, feelings, or behaviors. We must not take ownership for their adult responsibilities.
To grow and learn to empower ourselves, we need set limits on what we’ll give to others and what we’ll take from them.
Setting boundaries begins our recovery from the effects of our relationships with addicted,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], compulsive, and abusive people.
Setting healthy boundaries is not making a threat or an attempt to manipulate or control. Setting a boundary is a part of defining who you are and what is acceptable to you.
Setting limits and asserting our boundaries with others doesn’t mean narrow-mindedness, selfishness,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], or arrogance. It means refusing to allow ourselves harm. It means allowing ourselves to keep safe.
We take hold of the power of boundaries when we begin acknowledging and accepting:
• It is OUR responsibility to let others know our limits to protect ourselves.
• Only WE are responsible for letting others know our limits.
• Only WE are in control of whether people violate our boundaries or not. When WE don’t, WE choose to be the victim… we choose chaos... not anyone else.
Love addicts need boundaries. We need to set limits on what we shall do to and for people,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. We need to set limits on what we allow people to do to and for us,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. The people we relate to need to know we have boundaries.
It means we are taking care of ourselves, deservingly so,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], one day at a time.
We are adults. As adults, we are responsible for what we allow happen to us, what we let in, and what we accept from defective character traits and destructive behaviors of another person.
In the 'Love Addict in Love Addiction', I write a lot about the five core issues which is a large part of our pain and dysfunction in addictive relationships—one of these core issues of love addicts are Impaired Boundaries.
By setting clear boundaries on what we allow and what we will accept from others,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], we begin to take back our lives from being controlled by other people’s thoughts, feelings, and problems. With healthy boundaries, we claim ownership and responsibility for ourselves.
If we don’t let them know, we get used, manipulated, controlled,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and give up important parts of ourselves. We must know we have a right to determine who,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], what, where our boundaries stand.
Setting boundaries means communicating clearly what we will accept from a person and what the consequences will be if the other person continues to violate our boundary.
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Abuse Is about Control,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]
The moment I see resistance to equal access to both parents based on what a parent “may” do without any history of doing that which is predicted,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], then I know I’m probably dealing with control issues having nothing to do with the best interest of the child.
This pattern is so common that one can pretty much expect to see it in families of domestic violence when child custody and visitation rights are up for consideration. When parties are unable to reach an agreement and a dispute ensues,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you will usually see the controlling parent seeking full custody and restricted visitation.
It’s no secret that abuse is about control,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], even when there are no other visible signs of physical or verbal battering. Willfully interfering with a child’s access to the other parent because of one’s own personal issues,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], irrespective of the child,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], is a violation to the child as well as to the other parent.
We often see this pattern in families of domestic abuse in which the un-empowered (victimized) parent desires a fair and equitable split of parenting,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], custody and visitation,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], barring abuse to the child. And the empowered,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], controlling parent seeks to restrict equal access between the other parent and the child.
What’s less obvious is when the control dynamics reveal themselves by virtue of this failed negotiation. I recommend that one see the pattern for what it is,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], not for what it is sold as being. More than likely it’s not about the best interest of the child; it’s about the interest of the controlling parent.
In helping people negotiate child custody and visitation schedules,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I’ve come to see a pattern express itself in terms of parents’ desire for their children to have equal access to both parents.
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